You want to get her excited about meeting up with you There are a 11 powerful things you can start doing RIGHT NOW to re-light the spark and make her want you.
Yes, you can share each other’s different interests, but that’s why you need to ask this question, to see if you would enjoy adapting to their interests or if they would enjoy adapting to yours. You’d be surprised with the answers to this question.
As humans, we assume that people have the same expectations that we do. Here you get a taste of what motivates the other person.
When you’re struggling for ideas start by asking her how that thing she said she was going to do went…but in a dorky way that makes her eager to respond.
In the example below this girl previously said she was going to spend her Sunday afternoon binge watching Iron Man.
This way you’ll remain a source of fun and an escape from the mundane. Because: She’ll never feel awkward opening, reading and replying to your messages This is the key to guaranteeing her eyes light up every time she receives a text from you.
In fact by remaining jokey and essentially disqualifying yourself from anything serious you will keep girls MAGNETICALLY attracted. And the most AMAZING thing about all this is you can get away with saying almost anything you want…even subtly hinting at your true emotions or intentions without scaring her away: As you can see it’s ALL about your delivery: By maintaining a light hearted, teasing vibe throughout your texting interactions you won’t come across needy or creepy even when you’re being playfully persistent: Sometimes it can be difficult to think of anything interesting to text a girl especially if you barely know anything about her.
Unfortunately, men and women are wired differently. Not only are we different because of our genders, but we’re different because each person’s past experience helps mold their expectations and each person’s past experience is different. You’ll get a taste of what drives them, what gives their life meaning and significance. It’s always nice to know what the other person views as ideal in their eyes. Let them name the top three qualities that are non-negotiable. What have you learned from your past relationships?
It also gives you a view of what a future would look like with them. You can see if you’re looking for the same thing in terms of what makes a relationship good. Ideally, it would be nice to go through each of your past relationships, not to relive pain or point out the mistakes of your exes, but it’s important to know that the person you’re with has learned from their own mistakes and isn’t just moving forward ready to make the same repeat mistakes with you. These are deep questions that could lead to lengthy conversations, but it’s important to know what you’re getting into.
The goal of texting is to meet up with her, NOT have long drawn out conversations that go nowhere.
NOTE: If she’s already lost interest and gone from “hot” to “cold” make sure you haven’t made any of these 21 shocking mistakes texting girls.
Although it may seem like she wants to “chat” about everyday stuff, she secretly doesn’t.